When I saw the movie “Dirty Picture”, the dialogue completely stole the scene being the life of the movie which goes like “Entertainment, Entertainment, Entertainment” a full paisa wasool, whistling moment of the movie without a niggle of doubt.
Likewise in real life, I by heart a line & that is “Respect, Respect, Respect because through respect you connect”. I believe the foundation and the backbone of any relationship is respect, be it between children & parents, husband & wife, brother & sister, boyfriend & girlfriend, among friends, neighbors or for that matter strangers too.
In a relationship, if respect is there then automatically love blooms but when it is vice versa it might not always hold the truth. If it is only based on love which could be a simple attraction or an instant crush or an admiration for somebody’s looks then they might not have any value for each other’s individuality, personality & dignity. So, the result would be such that respect goes out of the window. Cause love can be formed on the basis of a mutual attraction or admiration but respect is more concrete, it’s more strong as well as genuine having substantial value and mutual understanding towards each other. In love you might lose your patience or you might lose your temper at times but in love if you have respect attached to it, you first try to put an effort to understand the other person being in the shoes of him/her, you weigh their situation and you don’t react but respond positively, you don’t justify or defend yourself rather try to see the situation from all the perspectives clearly valuing other’s dignity & individuality cause everyone is different & respect comes out of giving regards to differences that we all have. These traits actually make us more humane, understanding & respectful in nature.
So, for every day, every moment of our life the buzzword is Respect in every way. This should echo in our mind like Respect, Respect, Respect and what a whistling moment that would be.