Words have an indelible impression on our mind, we associate images with words, we all might witness the same image but the words that echo with those images can be different. As your words, so are your experiences. So, it’s always more apt and wise to use more powerful words to feel more mighty & substantial, likewise use more joyful words such as “I am blessed”. “This place is very enticing & attractive”. “There should be clarity in our communication”. “She is a very big-hearted person”. “I believe in companionship”. “We must encourage & motivate each other to live our best life”. So on so forth.
This is called creating affirmations or positive self-talk for a beautifully designed & thoughtfully crafted life. If you want positive results, if you want to feel happy, bright, cheerful, content, confident, then say words related to that & include it all in your affirmation and then see the magic happening.