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Confidence – Hi Doubt. I know you must be doing great.

Doubt – No, I am not doing that good. I have a lot of problems in my life. What about you confidence?

Confidence – I am perfect. But you don’t worry, everything will be alright.

Doubt – I don’t know, I don’t think so.

Confidence – Have faith in God. He will take care of you.

Doubt – Where is God? Have you seen him? I don’t believe his existence.

Confidence – He’s everywhere, he is in everything, in goodness and kindness of life you can actually experience him.

Doubt – Then you mean to say, He is not there in our bad times in our sad times and tough times.

Confidence – I already said He’s in everything. He puts us in difficulty just to make us more strong and to strengthen our belief system.

Doubt – But then why he can’t give us only happiness. He doesn’t love us.

Confidence – See, my friend life is like an exam, if you are not prepared you can’t pass the exam, you can’t fair well in your exam. So the inability comes from unpreparedness.

Doubt – But if I don’t have the ability to face my ordeal or the difficulty of my life, then what?

Confidence – Ability is a quality that’s personal. So you must develop this quality of being able to do something.

Doubt – But I’m afraid I could develop this quality I might fail in the process of developing myself.

Confidence – you must have faith in yourself & a strong belief system that you could pull it off.

Doubt – But there’s no one to support me in my effort.

Confidence – You must get your support group ready like the ones who like you, be it your family members or friends or well-wishers.

Doubt – But I don’t know whether they will really support me or they really wish good for me. I don’t believe they want to see me succeed.

Confidence – Dear doubt, it’s your attitude and you just have to see things in a more positive perspective.

Doubt – Is there any positive perspective that is there? When only problems are there in my life how am going to have a happy and relaxed mind?

Confidence – When we become positive, it doesn’t mean that our problems are going to fade away but positivity will give us courage & strength to face the problems and come out with the solutions.

Doubt – So, do you think being positive is going to give me good result and earn me good friends in my life?

Confidence – Being positive is certainly not going to give you any sure shot guarantee of getting only good results, but certainly, you will not lose your heart and more importantly your mind. It simply makes you more effective in handling problems more efficiently. And when you develop your personality then more people will be attracted to you and wish to be with you and stand for you.


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Ruheena Priyadarshini is a positive psychologist, professional speaker, and communication expert. She designs and develops seminars and workshops for Corporates, Universities, Institutions and conceptualizes various modules for Parents, Teachers & Students on Positive parenting, Self-growth, Positive attitude developments and other customized topics.